“A Serious Look at Humor”, Peter B. Rawlins, New Era, August 1974
Since ancient times it has been recognized that “a merry
heart doeth good like a medicine.” (Prov. 17:22.) Humor is used in many
situations, and anyone who has ever laughed should be able to recognize the
intrinsic worth of mirth. Sharing witty remarks or humorous experiences can
ease tense, uncomfortable situations and can create a subtle bond of fellowship
between strangers. This may grow into the special kind of private joke that
friends share.
The suffering, the discouraged, and those who mourn can be
cheered through humor. Thus, it becomes a means of fulfilling our commitment to
“comfort those that stand in need of comfort.” (Mosiah 18:9.)
Puns, exaggeration, understatement, irony, and clever twists
on common situations teach profound lessons on life, stimulate the imagination,
school the emotions, and reveal hidden relationships.
The fact that these good effects flow from wise use of humor
argues for the Lord’s acceptance of this medium of communication.
As with all gifts, however, humor can be misused and abused,
and the Lord has seen fit to caution us in its use. We are counseled to live
with “cheerful hearts and countenances,” but to avoid “much laughter, for this
is sin.” (D&C 59: 15.)
Again, we are told to “cease from all … light speeches, from
all laughter … and light-mindedness” (D&C 88:121) and to “cast away … your
excess of laughter far from you” (D&C 88:69). It would not be wise to
attempt to define “excess of laughter” or “much laughter” in terms of decibel
levels or time limits. It would also be presumptuous to define the line between
the sublime and the ridiculous. However, we may profitably consider types of
humor that may detract from spirituality.
Loud laughter, light-mindedness, and flippancy often betray
a state of mind that is lacking in seriousness. “Empty levity,” as Brigham
Young called it, detracts from the dignity of those who indulge in it to
excess. Such people “have little sense, and know not the difference between a
happy smile of satisfaction to cheer the countenance of a friend, or a
contemptuous sneer that brings the curses of man upon man.” (Journal of
Discourses 9:290.) A person given to such frivolity would find it difficult to
follow the Lord’s counsel to “look unto me in every thought” (D&C 6:36) or
to “let the solemnities of eternity rest upon your minds” (D&C 43:34). He
would be impaired in receiving revelation and would be weakened in the hour of
temptation. C. S. Lewis has written that “if prolonged, the habit of flippancy
builds up around a man the finest armour plating against [God] that I know. It
is a thousand miles from joy; it deadens, instead of sharpening, the intellect;
and it excites no affection between those who practise it.” (Screwtape Letters
[New York: The MacMillan Co., 1962], p. 52.)
A key in judging the propriety of humor is given by Brigham
Young, who seemed to approve of “joy and gladness that is full of meat and
marrow, or, in other words, full of meaning and sense” as opposed to “vain” or
meaningless laughter. (JD 9:290.)
Closely akin to flippancy is irreverence. Making light of
sacred things indicates a lack of affection for and faith in God. President
McKay had much to say about reverence and often quoted John Ruskin, who said:
“Reverence is the noblest state in which a man can live in
the world. Reverence is one of the signs of strength; irreverence, one of the
surest indications of weakness. No man will rise high who jeers at sacred
things. The fine loyalties of life must be reverenced or they will be foresworn
in the day of trial.” (John Ruskin in David O. McKay, Man May Know for Himself
[Deseret Book Co., 1967], p. 18.)
Irreverence differs from profanity and taking the name of
the Lord in vain only in degree, not in quality. Carried to the extreme, this
form of humor is manifest among those hardhearted people who speak
contemptuously against the prophets of the Lord, who revile, persecute, and
reject them. This nature was demonstrated among the mourners who laughed Christ
to scorn when he stated that Jairus’ daughter was not dead, but sleeping. (Luke
8:53.) Such a faithless spirit spews forth as sneers, jeers, revilings, and
ridicule. This can hardly be considered humor but is instead a cruel form of
berating.
The weakening aspect of humor in the time of temptation is
illustrated best in the area of dirty jokes, which relate to irreverence in
that they make light of the sanctity of the body and the holy relationship of
marriage. Humor hides a multitude of sins. Lust and perversion, for example,
are normally shameful, but under the guise of humor, many people can laugh
without blushing. Off-color stories are an effective tool in weakening a
persons’s resistance to temptation, for virtue is one of those “fine loyalties
of life” that “must be reverenced or they will be foresworn in the day of
trial.” Even pure minds, when exposed to such filthiness, must struggle to
avoid its recurring memory, and he who tempts another by exposing him to
unclean stories must share in the guilt if the victim falls.
As with lust, cruelty becomes acceptable to the world when
cloaked as a practical joke. Practical jokes are commonplace and are usually
well received by the victim. Caution must be exercised, however, that the
victim is not injured emotionally, spiritually, or physically. The effects of
practical jokes have ranged from embarrassment to actual death in some
instances. Pranks and malicious mischief are merely extensions of this same
spirit. It would be well to consider the Golden Rule when planning such jokes.
A most damaging form of humor is sarcasm, or cutting,
hostile, or contemptuous remarks. Such humor is usually based on inordinate
pride and is usually aimed at some person or group thought to be inferior, such
as minority races, ethnic groups, and the physically handicapped. Occasionally
some good comes from these jokes when taken in good humor by the object of the
joke—tense race relations have been relaxed and physical handicaps have been
placed in proper perspective. But this occurs only when the feelings of all
concerned are considered.
Though often meant to be harmless, sarcasm denotes
insensitivity to the feelings of others, stemming either from thoughtlessness
or maliciousness. Recall the perverted brand of humor of the soldiers who
mocked our Savior by putting a crown of thorns on his head, clothing him in a
purple robe, and saying, “Hail, King of the Jews!” (John 19:2–3.) It is
interesting to note that in prophesying of his death, the Lord included the
mental torture of mocking with the physical tortures of scourging and
crucifixion. (Mark 10:34.) How does a “humorous” remark designed to degrade or
hurt another person differ from this? Remember, “Inasmuch as ye have done it
unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.” (Matt.
25:40.)
To avoid using humor as a dangerous weapon, we must be
compassionately considerate of all that is frail, and humbly mindful of all
that is sublime. Would it not be better to “lift up the hands which hang down,
and strengthen the feeble knees” (D&C 81:5) than to humiliate and disgrace
one of our neighbors? When humor is such a powerful tool in building subtle
bonds of brotherhood, in cheering those who suffer, and in teaching profound
and memorable lessons, why should it be used to belittle and discourage? Those
who profess belief in Christ should shape their humor in the light of Christ’s
teachings. Being rejected from His kingdom because of a warped sense of humor
would not be funny.
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